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    How we’ve ditched the dummy – and all of Spike’s excuses for not sleeping since

    Around 18 months ago I spoke about ditching the dummy. Spike had just turned two and we’d managed to get her to only have her dummy at nap and bedtimes. I thought it would be a few months or so after that when she gave it up completely. But I was wrong. Bedtime dummy Spike transitioned well from having her dummy all the time to just having it at bed and nap times. There were a few meltdowns but all in all within a week she was fine. However whenever I tried to get her to sleep without it all hell broke loose. It was only when she was that…

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    Age differences. Is there a perfect age gap between siblings?

    Is there a perfect age gap between siblings? Scrolling through Facebook I see a pregnancy announcement. This makes the 4th mama I know with a child around Spike's age either pregnant or just having had a baby. Don't get me wrong I'm over the moon all these mamas. But there is no second baba on the way here, despite me always thinking there was a perfect age gap between siblings. I grew up as the youngest of three. With a brother 3 years older and a sister a year old than that. I used to hate the age difference between us. When I was little, they both seemed too old…

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    To my daughter on your 2nd birthday

    Dear Spike, You are two. All of a sudden, in the blink of an eye, you have been in our lives for more than 2 years. Inside and outside my body, I can barely remember a time you weren’t around. Yet it feels live only yesterday you were born. In the last 6 months you have had a lot of changes. You moved into a new class at nursery and since then you have blossomed into an incredible little girl. You’ve got such a strong personality when you allow yourself to let it show and you adore your football. I do wish you were a little more outgoing when it…

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    Join the Hasbro Family Hotspot community

    This is a sponsored post. I received a promotional item as a thank you for participating. *Please note: this opportunity is for UK residents only* Calling all Parents! Do you have a child of 12 years old or younger? You are probably familiar with Hasbro, a leading toy, game and entertainment brand. Well they have created a private online community of mums and dads to serve as advisors to their brand. They know that the products they create can inspire children and encourage imagination, play and creativity. They are relying on the feedback you can provide as a special group of advisors to help them gain a greater understanding into…

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    On this day…

    I’m not sure how many people reading this will be familiar with Apple’s photos app, but I can imagine its a lot of you. Today my photo app told me it has a new memory for me. An On This Day… from 2015. On this day two years ago I had just begun my maternity leave. Two years ago I was brewing a Spike. Two years ago today I had a photo shot to capture memories of something beautiful. I had always wanted a maternity photo shoot doing. I pinterested exactly what I wanted and was lucky enough to find McAvoy Photography and win myself a bump to baby photoshoot. That…

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    My top 5 Instagram pictures – March 2017

    I can’t believe its April already. It’s so wrong how fast this year is going. I will have a two year old next month! When did that happen! Anyway. March on Instagram was a big one for me with one of my posts getting the highest engagement I’ve ever had. It’s obviously my top photo on this post and I understand, and appreciate, that it’s all due to how good my partner is at capturing special moments. We also went away and we spent a lot of time together as a family which results in a happy Spike so that also shines through on my pictures! In 5th place this…

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    Definitely not a baby anymore…

    This week Spike turned 22 months old. Which is nothing. Except to me its something. That milestone means that she is just 2 months away from being 2. And that means she is definitely not be a baby anymore! A 2 year old is big. A 2 year old is not a baby, its a toddler for sure. And a 2 year old means I am very nearly 29… which is a post in itself! I’ve been preparing for this for a while as I knew that once she hits 2, she goes into a new room at nursery. So since Christmas I’ve been worrying slightly about the meltdowns that may occur…

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    Should I be feeling mum guilt?

    I often wonder if I should be feeling the ‘mum guilt’ more than I do. This week I had my probation review. I passed, which is amazing as I love my job. It means, however, that it’s been 6 months since I started my ‘new’ job. 6 months since I went back to work full time with a toddler in tow. And 6 months since that toddler went full time at nursery. At first it was hard. And I’m not gunna lie; there are still hard days. Especially when I need to have my work head on but I can’t help think about how she’s getting on at nursery. It’s a struggle…

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    My top 5 Instagram pictures – February 2017

    This month I’ve been trying a little harder to take, and post, some great instagram pictures. The ones that came out on top reflect that as they are probably my favourites from the month. They feature some great, and cheeky, captures of my little miss, who is just so cute I can’t help but catch her on camera. February went really quick and started off really busy for me personally. Not just with Spike but work too. I had plans to post loads to the blog and thought I’d feature loads of blog related content to Instagram but that didn’t happen so we just had day to day Spike instead.…

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    Nursery… One year on

    February 16th 2017. On this day, one year ago, I was lost without my little sidekick. My little cling on was at nursery. It was the first time I had left her for more than a few hours with someone who wasn’t her daddy. And I missed her more than I believed possible. She was everything to me, and still is. That much hasn’t changed. However, pretty much everything else has! This time last year I had just secured what I believed to be a fantastic chance at part time work following being royally screwed over by my previous employer. This fresh start meant that Spike didn’t have to go to…